Why oh why do the cock-sure ones make me hot? I mean it’s more often than not that they turn out being as emotionally fucked as I am, but maybe that is why they fuck so well.
It’s a process.
Anyway, let’s get some history on me. It started with arrogant guys, I always loved to arrogant guys in my youth. You know, before the years of sexual activity. Back when they were braging about the girls they “banged”, and how they were walking home bow-legged. Even the thrill of over hearing a conversation like that, made me excited.
Later on as I found my sexual peak, I drifted to the darker guys, the risky ones. Just a little dangerous, just a little bad. But even they held my interest for a little while, because even they are all just puting on a show. Who needs a tough guy who has to act like a tough guy.
Now that I’m in my late twenties, I know the kind of male that I crave. As my lover puts it, he is “cock-sure”. They know what they want, are open and even kinky in the bedroom. You wouldn’t know it by looking at them. They work right beside you, it’s the funny guy, the self-assured guy. The one you want to be around, the one you find yourself hoping they’ll invite you over to drink with the guys, charismatic and strong personalities. They offend everyone, have a good time with everyone, and not that you know it, but are kinky as fuck in the sack.
Tattoos down the side, piercing in fun places, maybe they like a some pain with their pleasure, maybe they like the back door. Maybe they want you to do them with a strap on, or to watch you suck them off while you grind against a wall mounted dildo.
If you find one of these men, keep them. They’ll be fucked up, but then again so are you. Because chances are you’ll be the one grinding against the wall, or using the whip.
But remember being with one of these guys means being dominant in your own right and knowing your limits or lack there of. You have to be able to stand up to them, or they’ll use you for their means and then move on. Because if you can’t hold up your end. If they see you as easily maneuvered and easily persuaded, the chances are this won’t be a long term relationship. Just ask yourself, do you want to fuck a wishy washy guy who doesn’t know which cock ring to use to save his life? But then again maybe that is your bag and far be it from me to judge.
But maybe you want to be a tourist. These kind of boys are fun, don’t get me wrong, but they may not be the type of guy that you take for a test run. You may not be able to look at yourself in the mirror after a month or two in the trenches with this wild type of boy.
Food for thought girls and boys, food for thought.
And to all of those Cock-Sure Guys out there,
Yum, Yum.